When ever purchasing intimate apparel for that special some one in your life, you need to know that the thought truly counts, but if there was very little thought put into the purchase, then your gift may definitely back fire on you.
The thought of giving a woman an intimate gift of lingerie that exposes her body and it is the wrong size, too revealing for the woman’s sense of modesty, or the wrong color is just plain insulting to any woman. Here is a helpful checklist for the uninformed and ill advised, but it is really just a couple of suggestions that should help men choose lingerie appropriate for the occasion, and most importantly the woman who will wear the lingerie.
First and foremost is the woman! Never lose sight of the fact that you are buying lingerie for a living, breathing, thinking creature. It is not like buying a toothbrush or even a sweater, because lingerie comes with a sexual charge, which is one reason many men buy lingerie. That sexual charge can be great and it can be the basis of disappointment. Unlike other gifts, lingerie is the most intimate gift one can buy for a woman. It is worn under her clothing away from the prying eyes of other men and women, reserved only for the special person in her life. It exposes some potential flaws, real, or otherwise that she likely does not like to advertise to anyone, especially the man in her life.
She may think her butt is too big, her tummy is out of shape, or she needs a tan. True or not, these are very real issues to her, and a lack of consideration in buying sexy underwear can expose some pretty sensitive feelings. Beware! You, as the man in her life should know about these concerns, and you better take them seriously. Put the shoe on the other foot for a moment. Say, you are convinced that a certain part of your anatomy is too large, or say you think you are too fat! Now, your girl brings home a pair of thong underwear in lime green for you to wear that makes your gut, butt, and everything else available to be seen, and lets say you are not too pleased. To add insult to injury, say she wants to take your picture and post it on the Internet. How do you feel? Get the picture?
Sensitivity to your lover is your number one job. With that being said how do you buy lingerie that addresses her needs? As difficult as it may sound, you can improve your and her chances with a few tips. First, think about her, think about her likes, dislikes in clothing, comments she may have made about various fashion styles, celebrities, and her comfort level when it comes to lingerie and intimacy. If this sound a little like a primer on relationships, it is and it isn’t. The truth is buying lingerie does require knowing something about the recipient, and since it is a gift that has a sexual charge, it definitely helps to know about her likes and dislikes in and out of the bedroom.
Does this mean that you should not buy lingerie for someone you do not know a lot about? Of course it does! We all agree we do not buy lingerie for a parent, or even a sister, so it goes that buying an intimate gift for a lover that we know little to nothing about is a recipe for failure, at best. This is not saying you can not buy your mother a robe, or perhaps something else in the lingerie store, but most of us realize that lingerie is reserved for intimate partners.
Great Tips for Anyone Thinking about Cosmetic Surgery
Getting cosmetic surgery is not a light decision. You need to take your time and research the surgery you are having done, before committing to it. It is important that you find out as much as you can beforehand. Here are some things you need to consider, when you are deciding to have cosmetic surgery done.
You will probably have to remove hairs before the operation; ask your surgeon what method is best. Usually, waxing is the best solution, but you might be able to shave if you do not have a lot of hairs. Your surgeon should be able to recommend the better method and the best products.
When contemplating cosmetic procedures requiring surgery, it is wise to request a fair number of before and after photographs prior to scheduling your operation. By assessing the true potential as well as the limitations of your chosen procedure, you will head into the process with realistic expectations of what is achievable, thereby avoiding possible disappointment.
Before you decide on plastic surgery, consider other options that are available to you. Sometimes there are measures far less severe that could be taken to address the issue. You might be able to get satisfactory results by simply using make-up, going to a dermatologist or developing a better beauty regimen.
Check to see if your surgeon is qualified. When considering cosmetic surgery, you want to be sure that the surgeon you are using is competent. Check online reviews. Contact the medical board. If the surgeon is board-certified, and ask about any complaints. Checking the surgeon out now can save you a lot of grief later.
Before going under the knife, always seek out a board-certified cosmetic surgeon. It is imperative that you get to know your surgeon. Ask about his qualifications, and certifications. Request before and after photos. If possible, speak with former patients. A good surgeon will be proud to show off his best work, and will always be forthcoming about qualifications.
You should keep your expectations of the results of plastic surgery realistic. Most procedures are about just an improvement over what you already look like and will not create a new face. If the procedures are centered around body contouring, remember that this is not a weight loss procedure but will merely improve the shape of your body by a few degrees.
Finding out what you need to know, before you have cosmetic surgery, is important. Use the tips in this article to help form a foundation of knowledge about the surgery. Then you'll have a better idea of what to expect. Find out as much as you can, and you will make smart decisions about your surgery.